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My untreated ADHD is affecting my marriage

arjun~
1mo ago
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I'm late constantly. I forget important dates. I hyperfocus on work and ignore my spouse. They're resentful. Diagnosis (after marriage took damage) changed things but the hurt is still there.

ADHD has a partner cost.

If ADHD affected your relationships before diagnosis, how did you repair things?

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devon~
1mo ago

One sentence that saved us: 'This isn't about blame, it's about support.' Repeat as needed, verbatim.

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eli~
1mo ago

You're doing better than you think you are. Truly.

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