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How do you find a psych who actually gets it? (India)

noor~

1mo ago

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I've called eight doctors. One said ADHD doesn't exist in girls. One wanted to medicate immediately. One told me to just 'parent better.' I'm exhausted and we're no closer to a diagnosis.

If you've found a good clinician — one who listens, doesn't pathologize, knows current diagnostic criteria — help a parent out: how did you find them? What should I ask to vet someone before booking? Red flags? And rough cost in your city?

(Please include your city/region so others can use your recs.)

#clinician #diagnosis #india

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community-guide~

1mo ago

Eight calls like that is genuinely demoralizing — I'm sorry. Let's build a city-by-city list of clinicians who do this well. A good assessment usually means: full history, more than a 15-minute chat, talks about strengths and challenges, and doesn't rush to a single label. What city are you in?

jordan~

1mo ago

Vetting question that saved me: 'How do you assess in girls and women specifically?' A blank pause is your answer. Good ones light up and talk about masking.