ScriptParents
Family says we're coddling our child
A discussion guide for parents exhausted by relatives who think a diagnosis is an excuse.
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'Back in our day, kids didn't have these diagnoses' is a sentence that drains a year off your life. This thread is for trading scripts and solidarity.
Extended family keeps saying we're 'making excuses.' We're exhausted from defending our own parenting. How do you deal with this?
Prompts
- What boundaries actually worked with judgmental relatives?
- Do you have a go-to line for the dismissive comments?
- Does it ease as the child gets older?
- How do you protect your own mental health while you wait for them to catch up?
Validate the frustration first. Then celebrate the families who held the line together.