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noor~

1mo ago in Tweens & teens

School won't give accommodations for boards even though the law allows it

RPWD Act allows scribes + extra time for board exams. Our school says: 'Never done it,' 'Not possible,' 'You need to fight the board directly.' Three months away and nothing's in place. The law exists. Schools ignore…

Parents#advocacy#legal-accommodation-barrier#legal-rights#practical-advice
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leah~

1mo ago in Tweens & teens

Nobody at school sees the struggle because they mask perfectly

Teen: straight A's, popular-adjacent, no visible struggles. But at home: anxiety, depression, sensory overload, executive function collapse. School thinks they're fine. I know they're one crisis away from breakdown.…

Parents#advocacy#invisible-disability#invisible-struggle#practical-advice
28💬 2New reply 1mo ago
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priya~

1mo ago in Tweens & teens

Peer rejection is becoming bullying and the school won't act

My 8th grader has ADHD, awkward socially. Peers mock them daily. School response: 'They're being kids,' 'They need to learn to handle it.' But my teen is becoming suicidal about it. School enabling the bullying. How do…

ParentsCN: MedicalCN: RejectionCN: School stress#advocacy#bullying#bullying-school-inaction#practical-advice#safety
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priya~

1mo ago in Tweens & teens

Teen wants to drop their accommodations because 'it makes them weird'. How do you talk about this?

Eighth-grader. Has used a fidget, extended time, and a quiet test space for two years. Now wants to opt out of all of it because of a comment a peer made. I don't want to override their voice but I also know they need…

ParentsCN: School stress#advocacy#teens
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priya~

2mo ago in Tweens & teens

My teen is brilliant but school is punishing them for differences

High IQ, extreme focus in interests, creative problem-solver—but can't sit still during irrelevant material, refuses 'busy work,' questions every rule. Teacher calls it 'defiance.' It's intelligence + ADHD. Schools…

ParentsCN: School stress#advocacy#gifted#gifted-adhd-conflict#practical-advice#school-conflict
30💬 2New reply 2mo ago