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Autistic masking and burnout: what helps
The cost of continuous self-suppression — and the practical moves that lighten it.
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Masking becomes harmful when it means continuous self-suppression without enough recovery. The fix isn't to never mask — sometimes it's protective — but to stop running a permanent deficit.
What helps
- Identify where you mask hardest, and find one place to drop it.
- Schedule recovery in proportion to how heavily a day was masked.
- Tell at least one safe person, so somewhere you don't have to perform.
- Notice and honour your stims instead of suppressing them by reflex.
The goal isn't zero masking — it's a sustainable balance, where what you spend masking, you reliably get back in rest.