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For neurodivergent adults

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Work & accommodations

  • Script6 min

    Asking for accommodations without overexplaining

    Templates by accommodation type, plus what to do when HR pushes back.

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  • Article5 min

    Disclosure decision tree

    A step-by-step for whether, when, and how much to disclose at work.

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  • Article8 min

    Building executive-function scaffolding (without an app graveyard)

    What actually helps long-term, in plain language.

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Energy, burnout & nervous system

  • Article6 min

    Spoons, batteries, and budgets: pick a metaphor that works

    Practical capacity management without performative wellness.

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  • Checklist

    Sensory regulation kits for adult life

    Daily, work, and travel kits curated by ND adults.

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  • Reading list

    Recovering from autistic burnout

    What it is, what helps, and what doesn't.

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Identity & late diagnosis

  • Article7 min

    What to do the week after a late diagnosis

    A gentle pacing plan that honors the grief and the relief.

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  • Script5 min

    Coming out as ND to friends and family

    Scripts, FAQs, and how to handle disbelief.

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  • Checklist

    Finding ND-affirming therapists

    Questions to ask in a consultation; red flags to watch for.

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Disclosure at work

Whether, when, and how much to tell an employer. Both choices are valid.

  • Article7 min

    Should I disclose my ADHD?

    ADDA's balanced framework, including the discrimination risk when employers lack awareness.

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  • Article6 min

    Should you tell your boss about your ADHD?

    ADDitude's cautious take: the answer is often 'no', and here's why.

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  • Article5 min

    ADHD disclosure for a job? (community thread)

    CHADD forum: real outcomes — stigma is real but improving, especially for women.

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Job interviews & getting hired

  • Article6 min

    Successful job interview tips for ADHD

    LDRFA on transparency and managing symptoms under interview pressure.

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  • Article5 min

    ADHD job interview adjustments

    Inspired Ergonomics on the reasonable adjustments you can request in advance.

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  • Article6 min

    ADHD career advice: job interview tips

    ADDitude's step-by-step: extra time, role-play weaknesses, arrive early, research deeply.

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  • Article6 min

    How to interview when you have ADHD

    TopInterview reframes hyperfocus as a strength worth highlighting.

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Masking & autistic burnout

What burnout actually is, why masking drives it, and what recovery realistically looks like.

  • Article9 min

    Autistic burnout at work: recognition & prevention

    NeuroLaunch: the more 'successful' the mask looks, the closer the breaking point.

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  • Article7 min

    Understanding autistic burnout at work

    Capstone: lack of accommodations plus over-masking equals emotional exhaustion.

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  • Article7 min

    Autistic burnout: signs, causes, recovery

    Neuro Spark on how burnout differs from ordinary stress and fatigue.

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  • Article8 min

    How does autism masking cause burnout?

    Simply Psychology on identity loss: 'I don't know what's me and what's the mask.'

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  • Article8 min

    What is autistic burnout? Signs & recovery

    Embrace Autism: burnout often lasts months or years, not days.

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  • Article6 min

    Avoiding autistic burnout

    Neurodivergent Insights on how heavy masking drains your reserves faster.

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  • Article6 min

    When navigating a neurotypical world becomes too much

    Autism Speaks shares a lived account of hitting the wall mid-shift.

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  • Article7 min

    Autistic masking and burnout: what helps

    ScienceWorks on the cost of continuous self-suppression without recovery.

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India: jobs & adult support

Programs that actually hire and support neurodivergent adults in India.

  • Article5 min

    TestingPro: building a neurodiverse workforce

    Nagarro × Atypical Advantage × Action for Autism × NASSCOM — an autism-to-software-testing pipeline.

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  • Reading list

    Action for Autism: tech employment

    Roles for programmers, testers, developers, and analysts. Contact: wne.afa@gmail.com.

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  • Article6 min

    Specialised support for adults on the spectrum

    India Autism Center on life-skills, vocational support, and emotional wellbeing.

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Conversation starters

Threads from the community for late-diagnosed adults, job-seekers, and professionals.

  • Script4 min

    Just diagnosed in college — everything makes sense

    Processing the relief and the grief over years spent struggling without support.

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  • Script4 min

    Job interview anxiety — should I disclose?

    Frameworks, not directives, from people who did disclose and people who didn't.

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  • Script4 min

    Masking so hard I'm losing myself

    Early signs of burnout and recovery strategies that don't require quitting.

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  • Script4 min

    Burnout recognition — am I experiencing it?

    Telling autistic burnout apart from depression and ADHD executive dysfunction.

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  • Script4 min

    Remote work changed everything

    Negotiating remote as an accommodation and managing return-to-office anxiety.

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