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Just diagnosed in college — everything makes sense

A discussion guide for the relief-and-grief of a late diagnosis at university.

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This thread is for the moment a late diagnosis reframes your whole history. Bring your story; make room for others' mixed feelings.

Diagnosed with ADHD at 19. Suddenly my 'laziness' and time-management failures make sense — but I'm also grieving years of struggling without support. Anyone else?

Prompts

  • Did a late diagnosis change how you saw your school years?
  • Did accommodation requests get easier afterwards?
  • How did it affect your self-compassion?
  • For those diagnosed after college: does the regret fade?
Normalise the grief and celebrate the 'finally understanding myself.' Both belong in the same thread.
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