ScriptND adults

Masking so hard I'm losing myself

A discussion guide for the early warning signs of burnout.

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This thread is for the slow erosion of masking too hard for too long — and catching it before it becomes full burnout.

I mask constantly — forcing eye contact, suppressing stims, performing in groups while exhausted. At home I collapse. Is this burnout? Will it get better?

Prompts

  • How did you know masking had become unsustainable?
  • What were your first signs of burnout?
  • Recovery strategies that worked while still studying or working?
  • How did you find people who accept the unmasked you?
Take early burnout signals seriously and point people toward real support. Recognition is the first relief.
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