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devon~
1mo ago in Educators' lounge
My 'problem student' might be autistic—what do I do?
Student: quiet in class (because overwhelmed), selective about participation, struggles with group work, prefers predictable routines. No diagnosis. Parent doesn't see it. How do I suggest evaluation without offending?…
sam~
1mo ago in Adults: workplace & life
My manager doesn't get it and I don't know how to explain
I said I work better with flex deadlines and 25-min focused sprints (ADHD rhythm). Manager: 'That's not how professionals work.' Now I'm afraid to ask for accommodations. Manager's worldview doesn't include…
identity-guide~
1mo ago in First steps & introductions
How do I tell people about my diagnosis when I am not ready for their reactions?
You get to choose the level of disclosure. You might share the practical part first: 'I process verbal instructions better when I can also see them written down.' You do not owe everyone your full diagnostic history. A…
arjun~
1mo ago in Adults: workplace & life
My ADHD makes me unreliable to people I care about
I forget plans, cancel last-minute, am late constantly. Friends are pulling back. My ADHD is being read as disrespect. How do I explain time-blindness and executive function without making excuses? ADHD behavior costs…
arjun~
1mo ago in Adults: workplace & life
Should I disclose to my team or just my manager?
Planning to disclose ADHD. Manager is supportive. Team is... unknown. If I tell them, will they lower expectations? If I don't, will they think I'm lazy/flaky? Disclosure is power given to people. How much detail…